Relationship Challenges

Whether you're single, dating, partnered, or somewhere in between, your relationships reflect how you relate to others and to yourself. I help clients make sense of things like communication breakdowns, blurred boundaries, and old wounds coming back up in new ways. Together, we can find a healthier, more connected way forward.

What are relationship challenges?

Relationship challenges are ongoing difficulties in building or maintaining healthy, supportive connections. They can affect partners, family, friends, or coworkers, and often reflect deeper patterns in communication, trust, or emotional safety.

  • Navigating the complexities of love, dating, and emotional closeness. This can look like:

    • Anxiety around dating, being “too much,” or not enough

    • Feeling stuck in the apps or unsure how to build real connection

    • Losing yourself in a relationship or feeling like your needs take a back seat

    • Taking on the mental or emotional load in your partnership

    • Repeating unhealthy patterns or choosing emotionally unavailable partners

    • Questioning whether a relationship is healthy, reciprocal, or right for you

  • When connection feels more draining than nourishing. This can look like:

    • Feeling left out, unseen, or like the “extra” in your social circles

    • Worrying about disappointing others

    • Struggling with comparison, jealousy, or insecurity

    • Drifting from longtime friends and not knowing how to reconnect

    • Overextending yourself to keep relationships going

    • Having a hard time finding your people or feeling like you belong

  • Family as both a source of deep love and deep challenge. This can look like:

    • Difficulty setting boundaries with parents, siblings, and children

    • Feeling responsible for others’ emotions or well-being

    • Guilt, obligation, or pressure to keep the peace

    • Navigating family estrangement or resentment

    • Carrying roles from childhood into present day

    • Parenting in ways that break generational patterns

  • The emotional toll of navigating pressure, performance, and power dynamics at work. This can look like:

    • Difficulty asserting yourself with supervisors or coworkers
Struggling to separate self-worth from productivity or approval

    • Tension or anxiety around giving feedback, saying no, or asking for support

    • Imposter syndrome or perfectionism at work

    • Taking on emotional labor at work, often experienced by women and marginalized professionals in leadership roles

    • Work-related burnout that’s bleeding into your personal life

You deserve deep, meaningful connection